We don’t see things as they are,
we see them as we are.
” - Anais Nin

I understand it requires great courage and bravery to reach out for help sometimes. I create a safe, confidential, respectful space for my clients to get curious, explore, unpack, heal, discover and create their best relationships and life possible.

We’re all just walking each other home.
- Ram Dass

About YOU

You’re wanting to HEAL from you your family of origin story and work on your attachment style, working to be more securely attached.

YOU want to work on your relationship with yourself, with your partner/spouse, w/ a family member or colleague.

YOU want to work on your RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE , COMMUNICATION skills, enhancing INTIMACY or spicing up your SEX life.

YOU’RE contemplating marriage/PRE-MARITAL counseling.

YOU’RE stuck in a hamster wheel in your relationship and need to “RE-WILD” it with discovery, variety and play.

This is the LAST STRAW before giving up on your relationship. One of you is IN and one of you is OUT….You're on the brink of DIVORCE.

You have discovered INFIDELITY and looking for support or repair/recovery. OR - You are navigating and are having an affair.

YOU want to learn about Consensual Non-Monogamy & opening up your marriage.

You want to work on your Out of Control Sexual Behavior (aka “Sex Addiction or Porn Addiction”)

You are ready to heal from a toxic relationship / NARCISSISTIC ABUSE.

You want to learn how to manage your ADHD - or ADHD is effecting your relationship(s)


My Therapy Approach

 
  • My therapy approach is relational, compassionate, direct, non-judgmental, all-inclusive, integrative, and holistic. I am NOT a diagnosing therapist and DO NOT take insurance.

    I enjoy creating a safe space for my clients to feel comfortable talking about ALL of the various presenting issues that can occur in one’s life and relationships.

    I draw from several different methodologies and modalities based on the needs of my clients, including but not limited to:

    Attachment Theory • Polyvagal Theory • Sex therapy • Trauma therapy • Relational Trauma • Interpersonal Neurobiology • Person-centered • Relational science • Neuroscience • Internal Family Systems (IFS) + “parts” work • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy • Family of Origin • Inner child work • Psychoanalytic • Gestalt techniques • EFT • Somatic therapy • Dr. Stan Tatkin’s PACT Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy • Terry Real’s Relational Life Couples Therapy (for high conflict couples) • Gottman Couples Therapy • Imago Couples Therapy • Conscious Uncoupling • Integrative Sex Therapy Institute Couples & Sex Therapy • Discernment Therapy for Couples "ON THE BRINK" of Divorce • Prepare & Enrich Pre-marital Counseling • Tantra • Kink • BDSM • Consensual Non-Monogamy (open, poly and swinging) • Love Languages • Apology Languages • Erotic Blueprints •

    The following can be integrated into therapy upon client’s request only:

    • Astrology
    • Tarot
    • Ayurveda
    • Tantra

  • Relationship & Sex Issues
    Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
    Premarital Education/Counseling/Coaching
    Newlywed challenges
    Infidelity
    Betrayal trauma
    Divorce support
    Post-divorce support
    Breakup support
    Sexual Shame
    Religious Sexual Shame
    Sexual assault recovery
    Anxiety
    Depression
    Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
    Complex-PTSD (relational PTSD)
    Body dysmorphia/Body Image
    Confrontation challenges
    Communication challenges
    Women’s issues
    Pelvic pain
    Men’s issues
    Painful sex
    Struggles for partners with painful sex
    Sexless marriages/partnerships
    Desire discrepancy
    Arousal/orgasm issues: anorgasmia & erectile dysfunction
    Out of control sexual behavior aka ”Porn addiction”, “sex addiction”
    Erotic exploration
    Life and career transitions
    Low self-esteem
    Anger management
    Grief & loss
    Childhood wounds
    Healing the “inner child” / Adaptive Child
    Money & finance issues
    Monogamy issues
    CNM (open/swinger/poly) relationship issues
    Opening up a marriage
    Alternative sexuality (i.e.: fetish/kink)
    Newlywed challenges
    College/graduate school challenges
    Highly sensitive people
    High profile clients - (attorneys, doctors, C-level executives)

FEES & POLICIES

Therapy services are currently available in Texas and Colorado ONLY!

I offer a FREE online 15 min consult for ALL of my therapy services.
Consults are held on ZOOM!

RE-Wilding Relationships, PLLC is PRIVATE PAY and DO NOT accept insurance.

We DO accept:
• HSA/FSA
• Credit Cards (Visa, MasterCard, Discover & American Express)
• ACH Direct Debit

Individual/Relationship/Sex Therapy
90-min INTAKE - $215
50-min sessions - $145
90-min sessions - $290

Couples/Relationships/Sex Therapy
Infidelity & Erotic Recovery
90-min INTAKE - $265
50-min sessions - $ 175
100-min - $350

Pre-Marital Counseling for Couples
50-min sessions - $150
(8 sessions required for the Twogether in Texas program
discount of Marriage Certificate and 72 hour waiting period waived)

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• Discernment Therapy for Couples on the Brink of Divorce
(Suggested 5-6 sessions)

- Intake Zoom Sessions -
Each partner schedules a 15-min Zoom session with Malia.
If both parties agree to Discernment Therapy, we will proceed.

- ONE Two-hour session (120 min) -
- 35 min together
- 35 with each individual
- Final 15 min. together
$350

- FIVE - Subsequent sessions (50 min)
Malia meets with the couple together and separately.
Last session: Couple decides which path the couple will take.
***If Path Three is chosen by the couple, the couple will begin Couples/Sex Therapy either with Malia, or a Couples/Sex Therapist of their choice.
$175

TOTAL FOR DISCERNMENT THERAPY: $1,225

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• Adult Family Therapy 90-min intake - $345
• Adult Family Therapy 120-min session - $690
• Adult Family Therapy Weekend Intensives (4 hours) - $1380
***Adult Family Therapy for 4-8 family members

• Groups - (Fees vary per group)

Intake Paper Work, Good Faith Estimate,
Therapy Appointments, Cancellations & No-Shows

Consultation & Paperwork
Once you have scheduled your complementary 15-min consult, and we determine we are a good fit, Malia will provide you with the required paperwork prior to your first session to complete and return prior to your first therapy session.

Therapy Fees
Therapy fees are processed at the beginning of each business day.

Cancellation, Re-schedules & “NO-Shows”
48 Hour Cancellation policy. No shows” or changes made within 48 hours of the scheduled appointment time will result in you being charged the full-session fee, as that prevents me from booking other appointments with other clients during that time.
You will receive a 48 and 24 hour appointment reminder email.

Mutual respect is the basis of a successful therapeutic, accountable relationship.

 GOOD FAITH ESTIMATE WEBSITE NOTICE

Under Section 2799B-6 of the Public Health Service Act, the “No Surprises Act,” you have a right to receive a “good faith estimate” explaining how much your therapy services will cost. Healthcare providers are required to provide clients who do not have insurance or who choose not to use their insurance for therapy services with an estimate of the cost of those services. 

· You have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate for the total cost of therapy services

· Make sure your therapist gives you a Good Faith Estimate in writing at least 1 business day before your appointment. You may also ask your therapy for a Good Faith Estimate before you schedule an appointment.

· If you receive a bill that is at least $400 more than your Good Faith Estimate you can dispute the bill.

· Make sure to save a copy or picture of your Good Faith Estimate.

For questions or more information about your right to a Good Faith Estimate, visit www.cms.gov/nosurprises or call HHS at 1-800-958-3059.

Notice of Electronic Disclosure

RE-wilding Relationships is a Covered Entity and must comply with the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (“HIPAA”), the Health Information Technology for Economic and Clinical Health Act (“HITECH” or the “HITECH Act”), and Chapters 181 and 182 of the Texas Health & Safety Code. Please note that Chapter 181 of the Texas Health and Safety Code defines the term “Covered Entity” more broadly than does HIPAA in 45 C.F.R. §160.103. Covered entities as defined by Chapter 181 are required to comply with the applicable Chapter 181 provisions. If RE-wilding Relationships obtains or creates information about your health, RE-wilding Relationships is required by law to protect the privacy of your information. Protected health information (“PHI”) includes any information that relates to:

· Your past, present, or future physical or mental health or condition;

· Health care provided to you; and,

· Past, present, or future payment for your health care.

RE-wilding Relationships may not disclose your PHI electronically without your authorization unless allowed by law. For example, the practice may share your PHI through approved, secure electronic methods for the purpose of treatment, payment for health care services, or health care operations such as case management or care coordination. 

RE-wilding Relationships may not disclose PHI electronically without separate authorization from you or your personal representative for each disclosure unless the disclosure is for treatment, payment, health care operations, an insurance or HMO function, or as otherwise authorized under state or federal law. 

For a complete list of reasons that RE-wilding Relationships is allowed by law to share your PHI, please refer to the Notice of Privacy Practices. This Notice will be provided upon the first date of delivery of health care services to you and is available upon request.

“Maybe being in good relationships, being able to to build trust with each other, and therefore intimacy, requires us to be able to move into conflict with each other (or conversations that could lead to conflict) with a faith in the process, knowing that we are not going to/we refuse to de-humanize each other, that we refuse to assume the worst of each other and that we are dedicated to staying the course and discovering what it is we can BECOME when we choose to have real, honest conversations.”

- CHANI NICHOLAS