Welcome to

Re-Wilding Relationships, PLLC

/rēˈwīld/
(verb)
to rehabilite, repair, remediate and regenerate;
to bring back to it’s natural state

Welcome.

I’m Malia.

A female Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Couples/Sex Therapist in Texas & Colorado.

My mission is to help individuals have better relationships with themselves, partners, friends, colleagues and kids.

In addition, help couples understand their attachment styles, how to regulate emotions, communicate, connect and navigate intimacy and sex better!


Please a moment to have a look around and learn more about the various Psychotherapy, Relationship, and Sex Therapy services I offer.

Therapy Services

My approach is collaborative, direct, backed by research, and goal-oriented.

Couples / Sex Therapy

Individual Therapy

Intensive Therapy

Adult Family Therapy

Business Relationships

Couples/Sex Therapy

Sex Therapy

Adult Family Therapy

Individual Therapy

Intensive Therapy

Business Relationships

  • Relationship/Sex Therapy

    Couples/Sex Therapy

    Attachment styles

    Attachment healing
    Moving toward Secure Attachment

    Communication,
    Intimacy & Connection

    Breaking painful "pursuer-distancer" cycles

    High-conflict couples

    Conflict Resolution

    Self regulation / Co regulation / Emotional regulation

    Sex Therapy

    Infidelity Recovery

    Desire & Erotic Recovery

    Monogamy Issues

    CNM / Consensual Non-Monogamy Issues
    (Open, Poly, Swingers)

    LGBTQIA+ Issues

    New parenting issues

    Empty Nest issues

    Couples on the Brink of Divorce - Discernment Therapy for

    Comprehensive Pre-Marital Education/Counseling (including sex, finances & divorce education)

    C++ - Doctors - Attorneys
    Dual Career Couples
    High Profile Couples

    Astrological Synastry/Compatibility

  • Relationship/Sex Therapy

    Individual Therapy

    Family of Origin

    Relational Trauma

    Attachment styles

    Attachment healing
    Moving toward Secure Attachment

    Life transitions

    Infidelity/Betrayal Trauma

    Divorce/Life After Divorce

    Narcissistic Abuse Recovery / Co-parenting - Parallel Parenting

    Grief

    De-constructing/Healing from "purity culture" / religious trauma

    Sex Therapy

    Psychoanalytic

    Individuation

    Re-discovery

    Astrology & Tarot

    Spiritual Psychology

    Therapists
    C++ - Doctors - Attorneys
    High Profile Individuals

  • Relationship/Sex Therapy

    Sex Therapy

    Women's Issues
    - Painful Sex
    - Low Libido/Low Sex

    Men's Issues
    - Erectile Dysfunction
    - Premature Ejaculation
    - Low Libido/Low Sex

    ​Out of Control Sexual Behavior
    (aka "Porn & Sex Addiction"

    ​Desire Discrepancy

    Adult Sex Education

    Erotic Recovery
    Pleasure Constellation Maps

    Kink/BDSM/Tantra

  • Relationship/Sex Therapy

    Intensive Therapy

    Couples/Sex Therapy Intensives
    Individual Intensives
    Adult Family Intensives

    Intensive Therapy are long form sessions, usually 4-6 hours in length, in which you can dive deeply into a complex issue.

    Intensive Therapy is ideal for people who like more time for their systems to unwind, want to work on a specific issue with more depth or are looking for deep exploration.

    ​Intensive Therapy is NOT meant to be ongoing therapy. It is a different way of diving into integration.

    If you are looking for a therapist who can see you on an ongoing weekly basis or if you are in crisis, an Intensive might NOT be the best fit for you.

  • Relationship/Sex Therapy

    Adult Family Therapy

    Post-Divorce Relationship Therapy
    Co-parenting Relationship Therapy

    Parents & Adult Children
    Mother & Son
    Mother & Daughter
    Father & Son
    Father & Daughter
    Adult Siblings

  • Relationship/Sex Therapy

    Business Relationships

    Business Partners
    Employee Relationships
    Conflict Resolution

Specialities

Couples/Sex Therapy
Sex Therapy
High Conflict Couples
Dual Career Couples
Affair & Erotic Recovery
Divorce / Break-ups / Conscious Uncoupling
When 1 or More has ADHD
Discernment Counseling for Couples on the Brink of Divorce
Erotic Recovery for Long Term Relationships
Pre-Marital Counseling
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

Why People Work w/ Me

  • Meeting you where you are on your journey. Non-judging, passionate, real, compassionate and humorous (when appropriate).

    ​I have personal and life experience healing from various T/trauma(s), BIG life transitions (death/grief, divorce, dating after divorce, being a business owner/entrepreneur, for over 20 years, changing careers in late 30s/early 40s, running multiple small businesses.)

    ​I have over 25 years experience working with individuals and groups teaching yoga, meditation and energy medicine, programs, intensives, teacher trainings and leading regional and international retreats. Developmental leadership, program & curriculum development.

  • I tell it like it is. No fluff. I am compassionate, empathetic direct and confronting.

    I aim to get straight to the root of your issues, so we can begin to heal, learn & grow from that place.

  • I invest in my development and learning and train with experts in my field.

    I truly believe we can only guide and mirror others based on the journeys we have been on ourselves.

    I share my work and passion from this place.

    I am a committed student with a tenacious appetite for learning and education.

    I love integrating knowledge and training in hopes that it mirrors back onto your healing journey.

Colleague Endorsements

  • Not only is Malia extremely passionate about her work, she is highly motivated to bring awareness, acceptance, and understanding to her clients as well as members of the public. I highly recommend working with Malia.

    - Alex Paro, LMFT, Certified Sex Therapist

  • "Malia is passionate about couple’s work and intimacy work. She is understanding, professional, and warm. Malia is a wonderful counselor and colleague!" ​

  • Malia is a highly skilled and passionate clinician. She is an asset to the helping community, providing support for both couples and individuals as they navigate relationships.

    - Sarah Kincaid, Licensed Professional Counselor

  • "Malia takes a beautiful, holistic approach with her clients. She is present, intentional, and genuine - and her empathy shines. She is brilliantly creative in her interventions with individuals and relational dynamics of all types." ​

  • Malia has a lot of knowledge and experience in her specialties. Would absolutely recommend her!

  • I highly recommend Malia if you need support navigating relationship issues, narcissistic abuse recovery or in need of couples therapy. She is very knowledgeable, open-minded, and a compassionate human being."

    - Marisa Stalvey, Licensed Professional Counselor

Relationship/Sex Therapy
Relationship/Sex Therapy

“Love speaks in flowers,
Truth requires thorns”

- Leigh Bard Ugo

“Maybe being in good relationships, being able to to build trust with each other, and therefore intimacy, requires us to be able to move into conflict with each other (or conversations that could lead to conflict) with a faith in the process, knowing that we are not going to/we refuse to de-humanize each other, that we refuse to assume the worst of each other and that we are dedicated to staying the course and discovering what it is we can BECOME when we choose to have real, honest conversations.”

- CHANI NICHOLAS

A relationship is an investment that will build as you continue to devote your time and effort. The more you put in, the more you'll get back.” - Sumesh Nair

Let’s see if we are the right fit.